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1. Jujur

Bila ada yang tidak kita sukai dari doi, lebih baik jujur. Kalo' perlu, obrolin saat kita dan dia sedang berduaan saja. Ngga' apa-apa kok, agak sakit sedikit, tapi enak belakangan hari. Seperti, kita ngga' suka melihat kalo' doi terlalu baik, mau mengantarkan semua teman cewe'nya. Ya boleh deh, kita terus terang aja, daripada saling sindir atau berantem.

2. Be Yourself

Jadi diri sendiri, paling baik. ngga' perlu mengubah diri kita menjadi orang lain. Misalnya, kita biasa mengenakan baju casual, jangan lantas berubah pake tank top, rok mini, hanya karena doi.

3. Tulus

Bila kamu mencintai dia, ya tulus aja. Jangan berharap dia akan membalas dengan jumlah sama. Bila sudah menolong dia, misalnya, jangan diungkit-ungkit atau jadi perhitungan

4. Terbuka

Ngga' perlu bohong, soal teman-teman kamu. Terbuka aja, selama ini kita deket dengan siapa dan biasa menghabiskan waktu dimana. Selain doi jadi ngga was-was, kamu juga enak, ngga' perlu sembunyi-sembunyi.

5. Kata "Maaf"

Maaf memang ada batasnya. Namun, ngga' ada salahnya juga kamu selalu siapkan kata maaf. Namanya juga manusia. Pasti ada salah dan ngga' sempurna. Kita sendiri kan ngga' perfect.




6. Kejutan

Jangan segan kita memberi kejutan buat sidia. Misalnya, kita buatkan makanan kesukaannya atau bawakan sekotak coklat. Mmmmm ... doi pasti tambah care sama kamu.

7. Care

Perhatian ! Pasti.Nngga' perlu mengorbankan rupiah, tapi perhatian sekecil apapun berguna banget. Misalnya, doi sakit. Cek deh, sudah makan apa belum. Atau tengok sebentar saja, bagaimana dengan pelajaran dia yang tertinggal.

8. Dekat Keluarga

Awas ! Pacaran dengan doi, berarti kita juga wajib dekat dengan keluarganya. Minimal, kamu kenal dengan mereka. Sehingga, jika ada apa-apa, komunikasinya mudah. Kamu pun bisa mendapat dukungan dari mereka lho.

9. Ngga' Posesif

Memang sih, ngga' enak kalo' ngeliat doi kita akrab dengan banyak orang. Tapi ngga' perlu posesif, kamu selalu memantau dia ada dimana, bersama siapa, dan lagi ngapain. Wah, lama-lama bete juga lho, diawasi seperti pesakitan !

10. Hargai Privacy

Meskipun kita dan doi terbuka, ngga' semua hal bisa dibicarakan berdua. Hargai juga privacy dia. Apa yang perlu kita ketahui dan apa yang sebaiknya jangan kita campuri.


At seminars and conferences where I speak, when people hear I am an Online Dating Coach and Dating Expert, during the breaks, people sidle up to me and ask me, "Can I REALLY find love online?"

What is my answer?

My answer is an emphatic, "YES! Yes, you really can find love online using Online Dating and Internet Personals websites and even some of those fun Social Networking sites like Facebook."

And then naturally their next question is, "Really? How? How do I find love online?"

That, dear one, is a longer answer.

Before you even actually POST YOUR ONLINE DATING PROFILE, you need to do some prep work.

Now, let's take a look in the mirror.

You DO have a full length mirror in your apartment, right? OK, good. So, take a look at yourself. How do you look? Do you look Your Best?

Or does your image need some work? You may indeed need to do some major work like lose over 50 pounds.

Or you may feel you would look better with longer hair. But those changes take time, months in fact.

The point is to jot those down as things you want to work on and improve in yourself, but you need to consider how can I change my image in the next 3 weeks to look my best because you are going to post your profile within the next 7-21 days.

As you improve yourself and your image, you are welcome to update your profile, and I certainly DO recommend you update your profile about once every 5-7 weeks. However, we are talking about NOW and the short term, because the point is to start getting MORE DATES NOW. Not in 7 months or 2 years. NOW. Soon. Short Term. You are NOW moving into Action for your Goal of a fulfilling and committed Long Term Relationship.

You're getting started, and that's great!

Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach, April Braswell, provides singles with dating advise and tips, dating blog, Las Vegas public speaking, and seminar leading for singles. Add yourself to her weekly ezine at http://www.aprilbraswell.com Copyright April Braswell. All Rights Reserved.